November 18, 2013

The Dress?

Hi Girls. 

So, I changed my mind again. I'm sorry.


This time I know it is the one.


I honestly cried when I seen this dress and thought it would be amazing on all of you.

Please be honest and let me know

1-Do you like or love it?
2-Is it too expensive?
3-Is this something you would wear or are you just cause I'm making you?






http://www.discount-dress.com/illusion-bateau-neckline-chiffon-keyhole-column-short-sleeve-bridesmaid-dresses-g22310

The Bridesmaid’s Pledge to the Bride

Girls, You know I love you most than anything. That is why you are the three in the wedding and not on the side. I feel this will keep us all sound of mind and not kill each other during the process. I love you and thank you.


I, [insert your name here], being of sound mind and happy heart, joyfully agree to be your bridesmaid. I pledge to uphold the following provisions and ask that the bride uphold the points set out in the Bride’s Pledge to Her Bridesmaids.
I pledge to bring laughter and smiles into your life whenever you’re feeling stressed.
I pledge to take your frantic calls regarding cake decorators and try my hardest to take your concerns regarding buttercream versus fondant seriously.
I pledge to hold my tongue if I do not like the flowers, venue, and/or color scheme you pick for your wedding. I will remember that it is your wedding, not mine, and that I am your bridesmaid, not your event planner.
I pledge to attend your bachelorette party and bridal shower, if distance and finances permit, and I ask that if I can’t come, you know that it’s not because I don’t want to be there. I know you might be sad, but I ask that you understand.
I pledge to wear whatever bridesmaid dress you deem perfect for your special day, though I ask that it not be too shiny or too tight.
I pledge to be a source of positivity and encouragement to you.
I pledge to be on time the day of the wedding (despite any previous difficulties with punctuality).

I pledge to help calm your nerves as we wait for the ceremony, be it with drugs and alcohol or hugs and squeals.


Maid of honor clause:
I pledge to plan a bachelorette party you will actually enjoy. It will be classy, it will be fun, but most importantly, it will be you. There shall be no objects shaped like a penis and absolutely no baked goods in the shape of undergarments or shoes.
I pledge that your bridal shower shall not involve gowns made of toilet paper.
I pledge to toast you at your wedding. I pledge not to mention your ex’s or that one time in Cabo, and I pledge not to have too much to drink before the toast (afterwards, all bets are off).


Most importantly, I pledge to be what I pledged to be the day we became friends: there for you through it all, the best friend I can be.

My Pledge to My Girls

Girls, I love you and thank you for being in my wedding. I want to make this pledge to you so I don't go crazy and forget we have ground rules. I promise we will all make it through this wedding alive girls.


I, Amanda Danielle, being of sound mind and happy heart, joyfully ask you to be my bridesmaid. I pledge to uphold the following provisions and ask that the bridesmaids uphold the points set out in the Bridesmaid’s Pledge to the Bride.

I pledge to make no demands, as I understand that friends do not demand things of each other.
I pledge to remember that while this wedding is consuming my life, you still have one. I ask that you excuse me if I talk too much about calla lilies. I still love you and want to hear about your life, so tell me what’s up.
I pledge to be conscious of your budget throughout this endeavor and to be understanding should you be unable to attend a bachelorette party or shower due to cost or distance. I will miss you, but I will understand.
I pledge to try not to share every single wedding detail with you—unless you’re really into this shit, in which case, let’s talk taffeta!
I pledge to choose a bridesmaid dress at a reasonable cost and in a style and color that I actually think will look good on you.
I pledge to let you wear your hair however you desire.
I pledge to try not to freak out if things don’t go exactly how I planned. I ask that you let me know, gently, if 
I am being insane. 

I pledge to remember that our friendship is more important than any little detail and that the most important thing is that you’ll be there by my side on my wedding day.


Most importantly, I pledge to be what I pledged to be the day we became friends: there for you through it all, the best friend I can be.